Thursday, May 24, 2012

I Can't Believe He's Not Butter

     OMG!!!! I found a video on Youtube about Child Molestation. (The video can't be displayed at school because APPARENTLY it is blocked by Websense).
    So, the video is about this poor boy who lives in the street with his mom and baby sibling. A man in about his early mid-20s to early-30s, named Bob, spots the boy on the street playing a cap game with his friends. Of course, Bob offers to play and beats the boy in the game. The boy gets humiliated by his friends so Bob -- being the rich man that he is -- gives him $100. The boy runs to go show his mother the money.
    The next day, Bob comes back and asks the boy's mother if he can take him on a "business" trip to the Hotel Paradise. The mother thought for a second but the son pleaded to let him go so she agreed. Bob said that he should be ready by 9:00 a.m.
     Bob and the boy caught a bus to the hotel. Bob told him to go get a bath. The boy was excited because he had never taken a bath before. Bob brought him a towel as he stepped back into the room. The boy then took off the towel and covered his private area. Bob responded to him by saying: "Hey we're both men, right?" The boy then uncovered his private area. Then Bob showed him a box of clothes that he had bought for him. The boy jumped with joy. He tried them on and Bob took him out to the pool.
    When they reached the pool, the boy looked for his trunks but Bob just said that he doesn't need trunks because, "Hey we're both men, right?" The boy looked a little puzzled but later agreed. Around 8:00 at night, they left to go back to the hotel room. The boy was thrown on the bed while Bob turned on the camera. The boy asked what the camera was for. Bob began to unbutton his shirt and say, "Shhh, it's all right." The boy was then raped.
     After Bob was threw with the boy, he found a 2nd boy that he could manipulate. The 1st boy grew angry and found this black man who protected children from child molestation. Bob was then locked up but said he would be back for the 1st boy.

All in all, Boy #1 should have realized the signs that Bob was portraying (although he was a young, vulnerable child). We as children and/or adults should be cautious and stand up for these felonies to be put to rest! Fight for what you believe in!!!!

Why Molesters Do What They... DO...

Hey again. I've been doing a little delving and apparently I stumbled upon a website know as "childmolestationprevention.org." The first part of the website is basically about the reasons why child molesters commit inappropriate touching/harassment. These are the reasons why:

1. They are children or teenagers who are sexually curious or experimenting.
2. They have a medical or mental problem that needs treatment. (A psychiatrist (or "shrink" for short) is usually needed at these moments).
3. They are opportunists, who lack feelings for others and who have an antisocial personality disorder. (Meaning they could care less about how the person feels because of their medical defect).
4. They have an ongoing sex drive directed toward children. (They're just disgusting!)

This is a cartoon drawing of a police officer questioning a young child about inappropriate feeling:

Child Molester Statistics

There is a website that I came across while doing my research. The website is basically telling you ways in which you can detect a child molester and how to know if any registered sex offenders are in our area. So, here's the link: http://childprotection.lifetips.com/cat/63573/sex-offender-statistics/index.html

Friday, May 18, 2012

Celebrities and Their Shocking Stories

Hello again. I was doing more research and i came across an web-article that displays six celebrities that were sexually molested as children. There are three that I have heard of and three that I have not heard of before (the celebrities). The six celebrities are Tyler Perry, M'onique, Mary J. Blige, Mackenzie Phillips, Teri Hatcher, and Gabriel Byrne. Here's the link: http://girlstalkinsmack.com/celebrities-molested/                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

Where to Find It

There is a website to where you may find out new ways to help prevent child molestation. What this website is really about is that it displays in chart form the ways to let you children know whether they should be cautious of a certain person. When you go on the website (in the 4th paragraph) there is something to click on called "CMRPI Prevention Plan." That is where the chart is. In one part of the chart, it explains that courts, police, or any official can NEVER put an end to child molestation or abuse. The reason being that when cops get there, the child is already abused and can't talk to the child beforehand about sex, unless it's their child. All in all, you CAN'T end Child Molestation, but you CAN prevent it from happening. So please click on the following link to access this resourceful information: http://childmolestationprevention.org/pages/prevention_plan.html

Friday, May 11, 2012

A Tragic but True Story

I found an article online about Vanessa Williams. She is telling her story about she got molested at the age of 10. But get this, it wasn't a man that raped her! :O The woman who raped her was 18 years old at the time and named Susan. Williams stated that Susan told her to lay down on the rug as Susan pulled off Vanessa's baby-doll pajamas. Little Williams lied there puzzled as she asked Susan what she was doing. Susan just told her not to worry because it would feel good. Williams did as she was told and didn't tell anyone because that is what she was also told. Williams told someone in college when she finally got her finger around what actually happened as a child.

As you can see, men are NOT the only people who molest kids. There are also different levels of molestation (but that will be in another post). We need to come up with ways of how we can get these people to stop because little girls are getting pregnant at young ages and have to abort their children and little boys teased by name-calling such as "fagot" and feel violated for the rest of their lives. Leave comments!


Thursday, May 10, 2012

Introduction to What You Will See

My blog is going to be about ways of how to prevent child molestation. Child Molestation is a serious felony. Adults can get at least 5 - 10 years in jail, remember I said at LEAST. So that means that you could expect more. Don't go around trying to molest kids. I bet your wondering, "Why do perverts fantasize about children in the negative way?" Well I have the answer. The abusers might:

1. Have been abused as children themselves
2. Be attracted to younger kids
3. Seem to love children, or the child(ren) might be drawn to the person
4. Look for women who have children
5. Spend a lot of time with the child who is not theirs
6. Create a special bond or touch them inappropriately
7. Be addicted to child pornography
8.  Call young teenage girls "sexy" or make other sexual comments to get in their pants (or skirts)

These are the basic reasons why people might commit child molestation. I hope you take these cautions into consideration.